Thai Boys

Dear Aunt Chanchira,

I am a British who has lived here in Pattaya for just over three years. I must admit that when I first arrived, I was overwhelmed by the incredible number of... well, there is no other way to put it...DROP DEAD GORGEOUS boys. For the first year I was here, I had more fun than any 40 year old man deserves to have. My problem now has become... "Is this all there is?" Here I am living the dream of nearly every western gay man, and I am finding myself becoming bored with sex! Is this possible? Have I reached my sex saturation limit? Please, Aunt Chanchira... what can I do to recharge my sex drive?

Satiated in Boys Town

Dear Satiated in Boys Town, Indeed it sounds like you have had too much of a good thing. Aunt Chanchira feels the same way the third week into her chocolate binges. I suspect your body (particularly that large mass of tissue between your ears) is telling you that you have had enough. While it is true that Thai boys and men have a lot of eye appeal, there is a lot more to Thailand than a series of orgasms. I suspect that your libido has been switched off because you are looking for something more substantial than a few moments of physical bliss. I also suspect that some of your partners may be feeling the same way about you. An occasional holiday away from debauchery is healthy and I encourage you to take one. Perhaps even the thought of becoming a monk for a few months sounds practical to you. While enjoying abstinence, Aunt Chanchira hopes you will allow yourself to meet someone who you enjoy talking with. If he is attractive to you, so much the better. Invite him to a day of shopping at Thappraya, dinner in a restaurant that does not serve Thai food, and an intellectually stimulating cinema. Keep your hands to yourself and tell him that you do not want to rush into anything. If he still makes your eyes sparkle after sixty days drag him to your bed. I think you will find that your libido will work perfectly well.

Good luck,

Chanchira