American guy worried about his girlfriend

Dear Aunt Chanchira Daughter

My name is Stuart Anderson; I am American and have been living here in Pattaya for almost six years. I met my sweetheart girlfriend last year during the Songkran Festival while she was celebrating and throwing water like others along the street in front of Pattaya 2nd Road, Soi 6. I was the one who approached and invited her to go out with me. The first year of the relationship was absolutely smooth. I had no problems at all until the beginning of second year. Then, she started to stay out and come back home late. Sometimes she goes out for the whole night and next day, which worries me to death. Every time I call her she always answers the phone and there is no background noise; so I can’t guess or imagine where she is. Sometimes I wonder if she is having an affair with other guys and I want to confront her; but I change my mind when I see the way she looks when she comes home. When she gets home, she falls into a deep sleep almost instantly. I have never smelt cigarette smoke or whisky on her at all. I ask her about her whereabouts and she answers me suspiciously; that she went out with friends for celebrations. Sometimes she asks for quite a lot of money from my point of view, 20,000 baht. Other times, she does not ask for any money for months on end, which is unusual, as she seems to be unpredictable. For me, this behavior is strange and I cannot figure out what is going on between us. Could you please explain and give me some hints on what is going on now between her, especially her strange and Unpredictable behavior and me?

My Sexy and Merciful Heart, American Stuart,

Your question is pretty difficult and complicated for me as per your explanation; there were no clues or suspicious traces to be used as evidence at all. However, the only two conclusions I have right now, by using the very little evidence you have given to me is, she might be into drugs, and is probably gambling. My explanation on why I suspect this is I have no other logical answers. The reason she comes home, and instantly falls asleep, is that she has been awake for many consecutive hours; which in my mind leads me to believe she is gambling. On the other hand, she may be using drugs. Especially, since you informed me that she started to ask for money some months while other months she did not; Bingo!! Yep, the answer is the months she had not asked you for money were her lucky months when she had just won big and the months she asked for large amounts of money were when she lost big time.